'How lovely to be a woman the wait was well worthwhile,' I believe that is from a song in Bye Bye Birdie. It is absolute bullshit. I loved life when I wasn't an official woman which for the record started late for me, age 14 I believe. Not that I mind it all the time, but when you just wait and wait for days for the damn thing to arrive it makes any woman insane. The weird thing is that I have nothing to fear from its absence, but your mind works in wonderfully imaginative ways when you wait. This is something I want guys to be appreciative about, they rarely have to suffer through all the waiting, just another example of women suffering for the 'sins' of Eve. Oh well! Not that any person reading this wanted to know about my menstrual cycle, but damn it this is my blog and it's on my mind! I am on 31 days when it is normally 28 or 29. Grrrrrr!

I went to the Bobcat football game tonight- thrilling I tell you. I generally only care for sports if I know people who are in them. I went with my mom and my niece. Tonight was the first game when she has school friends she got to hang out with another girl. It was probably really exciting for her, and scary for me to allow her to go out of my sight. She's not a baby anymore though... although I reminded her to scream and kick and say loud, 'THIS IS NOT MY PARENT- THEY ARE TRYING TO TAKE ME- HELP,' if someone grabbed her. I just couldn't live with myself if anything happened to that little girl. I can't believe she is almost 7.

I have had an experience with a guy on messenger who insulted me to try to engage me in further conversations. I think that is counterproductive- anyone else agree? I makes me grateful for the other nice guys I have talked to, and their understanding about my limits.

On to other things- I am having a love affair these days. But it's not that kind of affair- I just fell back in love with my cat. She missed me horribly when I was gone last week, even though she would never admit to it. Yes, I know sounds like I'm on my way to 'scary cat lady' status- but it's not that bad.

I am sure that I will update in the next couple of days- maybe I will get something interesting to talk about by then. There's always hope.....